Do you think about yourself in relation to nature around you? What is your relationship with nature?
Are you intertwined like ancient roots or curved branches? Do you blend in? Are you detached?
I have just realized that the more I am in nature, the more I details I notice and the more supported I feel.
Yes. I was going to say ‘healed’ and there is that too. But it’s supported that I mean. And feeling supported, as my extraordinary homoeopath once told me, is the number one most important factor in anyone’s healing.
Last night I noticed that the bees were still busy caring for the pinky-purple flowers of the giant rhododendron trees in our back garden as dusk was darkening thickly around them and the wind was gusty and hard. Yet even with their aerodynamically-absurd tiny wings and big, fluffy bodies the bees kept going.
Suddenly I’m thinking the quickening dark is an analogy for depression and that bees are a wild inspiration to us for mindful activity in the face of impending mental angst.
I am seeing these kind of tiny, potent metaphors and analogies everywhere I look in nature now.
It’s quite overwhelming.
It’s like I knew all this but now I am being shown, blinkers off, eyes wide open.
I’m frightened yet thrilled. Like when a child asks for some “danger†within the safety of a familiar, loved story.
A single happy moment. Unbidden. Arriving during a simple, productive task.
Cherished.
I feel we have lost much of the support of nature, the bracing perspective it gives us, and the multifarious, analogous aids we have in seasons, plants, birds, animals – aids we can easily find in every living thing if we simply look.
I think we humans have simply taken it all for granted, simply not really noticed it and furthermore we’ve been hugely attracted, like bees to blue plastic flowers, to gadgets and gizmos and fripperies that provide saccharine nectar for us which doesn’t sustain and nurture us but gives us hedonistic, too-quick highs and cravings for more.
Don’t get me wrong, I am as easily seduced by shiny as you or anyone else. But now I am feeling a different seduction that’s much more rewarding. A primal craving. And a deeper level of satisfaction.
I’m Noticing Nature.
Feeling supported by it.
Which in turn makes me Notice Nature more.
And feel ever more supported.
Why should this be such a surprise to me when it’s in my nature? Is it in your nature too?
Image “Forget Not” above borrowed from Mae Chevrette Art – Original Paintings and Mixed Media. You can buy this and other art such as “In the Sea” and “The Love You Make” oh, and “To Be Brave” from Mae’s Etsy store. Thank you for making the world more beautiful Mae.
amypalko says:
Beautiful post. I love feeling close to nature. Being connected to the world around me is vitally important to my own sense of wellbeing. And yet, for a long time, I disconnected myself from the trees, the lochs, the mountainsides. I live in Scotland, a land of rugged beauty that invites you to walk amidst its glens, but I resisted for the longest time. After all, I had things to do, people to meet etc.
It was my camera that reasserted my connection to nature. Through my lens, I was invited to view the world anew. And ever since then, my photography and my writing have helped me to find flow. They’ve helped me to rediscover my place in relation to the world outside my window.
Thank you so much for sharing this beautiful post – I have so appreciated it 🙂
Amy
xx
10/06/2010 — 10:30 am
Jackie Stewart says:
A beautiful piece of writing – even 5 mins weeding can take you out of fug. When I did a flower essence-making workshop recently all participants shared their experiences of making their essence. Each person had been drawn to a different flower but everyone said they felt supported by the earth and that all was well. This is always true, but we make ourselves so busy we forget. I really resonate with your thoughts, thank you for sharing.
10/06/2010 — 10:52 am
Meredith says:
I’m so glad for you, that you are recovering your connection with Nature. My whole life revolves around the joy and beauty to be found in my relationship to this magical Earth. Wonderful post! 🙂
10/06/2010 — 5:12 pm
Talon says:
Flora, I really enjoyed this post. I’ve always been a person who finds her best moments surrounded by nature. And when you wrote of the clothes-line moment, I had to laugh because my friend and I were just discussing how much we enjoy such a simple chore. It hits all the senses and the best of all is later climbing into a sweet-scented bed on line-dried sheets.
11/06/2010 — 4:07 am
crazy sue says:
A beautiful post Flora. I wish I saw the detail as you do but for me the connection feels around space, time and connecting people. I too have suffered the black dog and only nature pulled me up onto her forest floor where I ofen still lay in her sanctuary, watching the miracles of her world. They remind me that my load is not heavy but a gift.
09/10/2011 — 5:55 pm